My roommate came out as trans a couple months ago, but wasn’t ready for a change in pronouns yet. Now he is, and I am trying so hard to do what he wants.
But it’s really hard to go from calling someone she/her for years to calling them he/his.
I’ve gotten a lot better the last couple days, but for the last week I’ve been messing it up over and over. He’s being really patient about it and it’s making me feel like a big bag of shit.